Tour Dates


When I’m not on tour I’m usually available in Southern Indiana with enough notice. I do not have a permanent in-call in but I would be delighted to play hostess for our date. Kindly add a $150+ deposit (based on current rates in the area) to help cover the cost of our private space – I will take care of the rest.

Philadelphia (King of Prussia)

April 22-24, 2024 ALL DAY

Boston, MA (Waltham)


Don’t see your city here? FMTY or sponsor a tour!

Tour Rates

  • 1 hr $450
  • 90 mins $625
  • 2 hrs $800
  • 3 hrs $1100
  • 4 hrs $1400
  • 5 hrs $1600
  • 6 hrs $1800
  • 12 hrs Overnight $2800
  • 24 hrs Adventure $3800
  • Please inquire about additional days

Add an additional $200 for tours in NYC.

Outcalls to your location are an additional $100 (to be paid as a deposit) and are available to upscale hotels and private residences within a 30 minute drive. 

Appts of 3+ hours require meal/social time and a 20% deposit.

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Sponsor a Tour

If I’m not touring your area and you’d like to see me in your city, you can sponsor a tour. Book me for a minimum of 4 hours and I’ll tour your city.

No extra travel fees, simply a minimum 4 hour booking and I’ll travel to you and organize a tour around our visit.

Sponsoring a tour requires a 50% deposit.

Please note that a sponsored tour will be accepted or declined in part based on the requested city and whether I’m able to build a successful tour around it.

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Fly Me to You

If you’d like to see me but you don’t see your city on the list I’m more than happy to hop on a flight and come to you.

The easiest way to see me when you’re somewhere I’m not is to simply fly me to you. Whether it’s to show me around your hometown, make work travel a bit more fun, or accompany you to your favorite destination my suitcase is always packed and ready to go! 

Generally, I offer FMTY to people I have already built a connection with in-person, however, there have been instances when I let extremely kind and accommodating gentlemen sweep me away.

I am passport ready and can be available nationwide and worldwide. I require enough notice to coordinate the details.

Domestic: 4 hr minimum + travel expenses

International: 24 hr minimum + travel expenses

All FMTY dates require a 50% deposit and 100% upfront travel fees.

Monthly Arrangments

Exclusive Arrangements and Rendezvous are always available. Email me and we can discuss details!


I’m fortunate to have met some wonderful people in my line of work. Gifts are not expected, but I am often asked what kinds of gifts make me smile. Spoil me!