Tour Dates


If I’m not on tour I’m always available for outcalls

DETROIT, MI – this tour is TBD

October 19 & 20, 2023

Indianapolis, in (carmel)

November 2 & 3, 2023 (may add the 4th)


November 2023 (exact dates TBD)

WASHINGTON, D.C. (tysons corner)

November 2023 (exact dates TBD)

Baltimore, md

November 2023 (exact dates TBD)

Don’t see your city here? FMTY or sponsor a tour!

Tour Rates

  • 1 hr $450
  • 90 mins $625
  • 2 hrs $800
  • 3 hrs $1100
  • 4 hrs $1400
  • 6 hrs $1800
  • 14 hrs Overnight $2800
  • 24 hrs Adventure $3800
  • 48 hr Tryst: $5000

Outcalls to your location are an additional $100 and are available to upscale hotels and private residences within a 30 minute drive.

Naomi Wilder Patronage Page

Sponsor a Tour

If I’m not touring your area and you’d like to see me in your city without doing a FMTY, you can sponsor a tour. Book me for a minimum of 4 hours and I’ll tour your city.

No extra travel fees, simply a minimum 4 hour booking and I’ll travel to you and organize a tour around our visit.

Sponsoring a tour requires a 50% deposit

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Fly Me to You

If you’d like to see me but you don’t see your city on the list I’m more than happy to hop on a flight and come to you.

The easiest way to see me when you’re somewhere I’m not is to simply fly me to you. Whether it’s to show me around your hometown, make work travel a bit more fun, or accompany you to your favorite destination my suitcase is always packed and ready to go! 

Generally, I offer FMTY to people I have already built a connection with in-person, however, there have been instances when I let extremely kind and accommodating gentlemen sweep me away.

I am passport ready and can be available nationwide and worldwide. I require enough notice to coordinate the details.

Domestic: 4 hr minimum + travel expenses

International: 24 hr minimum + travel expenses

All FMTY dates require a 50% deposit and 100% upfront travel fees.

Monthly Arrangments

Exclusive Arrangements and Rendezvous are always available. Email me and we can discuss details!


I’m fortunate to have met some wonderful people in my line of work. Gifts are not expected, but I am often asked what kinds of gifts make me smile. Spoil me!

Please fill out the BOOK ME form or you can email me with the required info.


Please fill out the BOOK ME form or you can email me with the required info.

  • Full Name
  • Phone Number & Email Address
  • Age / Brief Physical Description
  • A pic of your Driver’s License (you can black out your address, SSN, and DL# for comfort)
  • Contact Emails of TWO independent providers you’ve seen in the last 6 month OR P411 Client ID showing 3 or more Okays you’ve received in the last 6 months

If you do not have References or P411 Okays I will need the below information:

  • A Recent Selfie holding your Driver’s License
  • Your LinkedIn URL with 100+connects

For our mutual safety and comfort, I require all new friends to be screened. It creates a safe, honest, and open environment that we can both feel comfortable in.

Your privacy is very important to me and anything shared will be treated with the utmost respect and confidentiality.

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