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I try to respond to all requests within 24 hours. In order to offer the best possible experience, I require adequate time and energy to prepare for our time together.

Advanced booking is greatly appreciated and highly recommended in order to accommodate the time needed for screening. Same day requests can occasionally be accommodated. Please reach out to check my availability.

When I’m not on tour, with enough notice, I’m usually available in the Indianapolis / Bloomington, IN / Southern Indiana area within an hours drive of Bloomington (more than an hour will require an additional donation). I do not have a permanent in-call in but I would be delighted to play hostess for our date. Kindly add a $150+ deposit (based on current rates in the area) to help cover the cost of our private space – I will take care of the rest.

While on tour I host at upscale hotels.

If you’d like to request that I travel to your city, please take a look at my Tours page for details.

First and foremost, I like spending time with gentlemen who are respectful, considerate, and take care of themselves. I love gentlemen of all shapes, sizes, color, religion, backgrounds, orientation, abilities, and experience levels between the ages of 21-70 years old who consider my personal profile to be the perfect compliment to his inner adventurer. I want our time together to be a space where you feel comfortable being yourself.

If you are someone who needs to be reminded of appropriate hygiene, manners, or common courtesy – we are likely not a match.

You are more than welcome to use my shower and are encouraged to do so if you haven’t showered in the last hour (your morning shower does not count), have just come from work, or you have driven a long way to see me. I understand you may work an office job and didn’t sweat all day but I request you freshen up anyway.

In return, I can promise I will always be fresh and clean for our date.

Having a beard is fine, but be mindful if you have abrasive stubble as it can cause irritation. 

Please note: I reserve the right to request you shower again, if needed.

Upon arrival at my in-call: place the donation in sight in an unsealed envelope and then excuse yourself to wash your hands.

If we are meeting at your place: leave the donation in the restroom where I can find it while I change into something more comfortable.

If we are meeting in public: putting the donation in a card or a gift bag is ideal. 

Nervousness is a normal, human feeling! Don’t worry, I don’t mind taking the lead. But please don’t be afraid to communicate your desires.

If we are meeting for the first time, expect to join me on the sofa so we can chat for a short time before we get more comfortable.

I do not discuss “menu” items. Donations are for my time and companionship only.

If we are going out in public, I will always dress for the occasion or dress as suggested.

If I come to you, I will be dressed conservatively until I’m tucked safely inside. After we’ve said our hellos I’ll excuse myself to the restroom to change into something more comfortable.

If you come to me, I will usually be dressed in my favorite lingerie under a silk robe.

No matter where we are, if you would like me to dress in a specific outfit please let me know ahead of time.

I do not partake in any substances and would prefer that my friends also remain substance free when we are together at my place or yours. Please do not arrive under the influence of alcohol/drugs.

If we are going out to dinner together, you are more than welcome to indulge in a drink or two. At no point will drunken behavior be tolerated. 

Yes, for mutual safety and comfort I require all new friends to be screened. It creates a safe, honest, and open environment that we can both feel comfortable in.

I understand that divulging personal information can be uncomfortable. Your privacy is very important to me and anything shared will be treated with the utmost respect and confidentiality.

You can complete the screening here.

It’s fine if you are not comfortable with screening, however, I will not be able to see you until you send ALL screening information requested.

Appointments of 3 or more hours require meal/social time and a 20% deposit.

Outcalls to your location are an additional $100 (to be paid as a deposit) and are available to upscale hotels and private residences within a 30 minute drive. 

When I’m not on tour I’m usually available in Southern Indiana with enough notice. I do not have a permanent in-call in but I would be delighted to play hostess for our date. Kindly add a $150+ deposit (based on current rates in the area) to help cover the cost of our private space – I will take care of the rest.

The deposit goes towards the total donation. You do forfeit the deposit upon your cancellation.

In the rare occasion I need to cancel, your deposit would be returned in full.

Deposits can be made by CashApp $NaomiIsWilder or Venmo @naomiwilder or Amazon Gift card.

I understand that life can interrupt our plans. Should you need to reschedule, I’m happy to accommodate you within reason. If you need to cancel, please give me as much advanced notice as possible. 

Any cancellation made after scheduling will lose the deposit. 

Cancellation within 48 hours of the day of our appointment will incur a 50% cancellation fee. Cancellation made within 24 hours of the day of our appointment will incur 100% cancellation fee.

If you cancel twice in a row you will be required to secure time to meet with a 50% deposit or I will no longer accept requests from you. 

Payment can be made by CashApp $NaomiIsWilder or Venmo @naomiwilder or Amazon Gift card.

No, I am sorry I can’t send you more photos at this time. You are welcome to follow me on Twitter or check my Gallery page for new photos that I may post.

Yes! I love presents! Gifts are never expected but they are appreciated. You can bring dark chocolate, candles, or a non-alcoholic drink to our date. 

You can also tip me directly via CashApp $NaomiIsWilder or Venmo @naomiwilder

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